{"id":53,"date":"2026-10-07T11:04:30","date_gmt":"2026-10-07T11:04:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/poliii.com\/?p=53"},"modified":"2026-10-07T11:04:31","modified_gmt":"2026-10-07T11:04:31","slug":"why-does-love-disappear-after-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/poliii.com\/?p=53","title":{"rendered":"Why does love disappear after marriage?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/hosting.photobucket.com\/images\/i\/pleso\/Zavertaliuk_Tetiana_(yellow).png\" alt=\"\" title=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Author of the article<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zavertaliuk Tetyana<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8230;expand<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tetyana works with inquiries regarding emotional confusion, relationships with oneself and others, low self-esteem, emotional codependency, traumatic events, and personal boundaries. Uses methods of positive psychotherapy, CBT, Gestalt therapy, family systemic therapy and art therapy. The therapist works with adult clients. Counsels LGBT+ clients, clients with diagnosed psychiatric illnesses, pregnant and new mothers, the elderly and HR (coaching). She uses humor in her work, praises for progress, mixes different psychotherapy methods and helps to look at problems in a new way. Tetyana also conducts couples therapy (including for LGBT couples), during which she helps to resolve problems of conflicts, communication, disorders in intimate life and personal boundaries.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/pleso.me\/ua\/therapists?psychologist_id=85ecc9a4-3fdf-4081-bf60-cc46b84a8047\">Specialist page <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"blob:https:\/\/poliii.com\/8a0b2780-c655-4856-8d12-8fb82aa694c5\" alt=\"\"><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One of the questions women come to a psychologist for a consultation with is: &#8220;Before the wedding, we had such love&#8230; A year has passed, and there are almost no feelings left.&#8221; <strong>Is this a familiar situation? Is love really fading away or are these temporary difficulties?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Let&#8217;s take a closer look at what happens to a couple after marriage:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1.<\/strong> <strong>Infatuation passes, and we meet a real person.<\/strong> In the first years, feelings for a partner blind us, we feel euphoria, hormone levels are skyrocketing, minor troubles are easily overcome, and the partner&#8217;s shortcomings are not noticeable. As the relationship develops, the intensity of feelings decreases, we get used to the partner&#8217;s qualities that previously affected us, they become ordinary for us, and we stop noticing them. But the brain still notices something, so the partner&#8217;s shortcomings become obvious. The ideal image is replaced by a real person with their true desires, feelings, and needs, which we may not like.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Also, when getting married, a young couple faces changes in their relationship: living together, budget planning, everyday issues, communicating with friends. For example, one partner wants to sleep, while the other, on the contrary, is full of strength and energy, someone loves cleanliness, while the other throws everything away. Such situations in the life of a couple can arise every day. The more we notice the difference in each other, which seems unattractive to us, the more it feels as if the feelings are leaving.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>What to do?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">During this period, it is very important to learn to negotiate, find compromises and positive aspects in the differences that arise, and it is possible to learn to simply ignore something. It will be useful to discuss who is responsible for what in everyday matters, how to distribute responsibilities and priorities in finances. The more understanding and transparency, the less claims both parties have towards each other, and the more positive impressions they will have from communicating with each other.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>2.<\/strong> &nbsp; <strong>One partner keeps quiet about problems that arise in the marriage.<\/strong> When one partner does not say what is not working for him, adapts to the other partner, sacrifices his\/her interests and desires in order to eliminate conflicts and preserve the relationship, he\/she may face emotional exhaustion, feelings of uselessness and worthlessness. The other partner may not notice what is happening for a long time, because he\/she is sure that everything is fine in the relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>What to do?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It is important for each partner to talk about their desires and expectations, learn to say \u201cno\u201d to each other, find opportunities to meet the needs of both partners, and devote time not only to the family, but also to their own development, recreation, and interests.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>3.<\/strong> <strong>Routine in relationships<\/strong> . For example, before marriage, partners often went to friends&#8217; houses, to concerts, took walks, life was rich and interesting. In marriage, a couple is faced with the fact that every day is similar to the previous one and a feeling of routine arises. A constant daily routine, the same duties, rituals, a lot of time at home can make life together boring, and feelings lose their brightness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>What to do?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">During this period, it is important to continue to fill life with emotions and feelings, plan time together outside the home, meet with friends, go on trips, and make surprises.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">After the wedding, feelings go through a new stage of development, change, and move to a deeper level. Openness, expression of feelings, the ability to find compromises, taking care of yourself and your partner, support, and filling family life with impressions will help you go through the period of adaptation to family life more easily and strengthen love.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Author of the article Zavertaliuk Tetyana &#8230;expand Tetyana works with inquiries regarding emotional confusion, relationships with oneself and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":54,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"postBodyCss":"","postBodyMargin":[],"postBodyPadding":[],"postBodyBackground":{"backgroundType":"classic","gradient":""},"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,3,1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-53","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-interesting","category-psychology","category-recovery"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v28.6 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Why does love disappear after marriage? 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